The Quiet Confidence God Builds in the Waiting
- Dr. Sharon Kelley

- 5 days ago
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Quiet Confidence In The Waiting
The Season That Feels Like Nothing Is Happening
Quiet confidence in the waiting is trusting that God is working beneath the surface, even when no visible progress can be seen.
Several years ago, I planted a small tree in my backyard.
At first, I checked it almost every day. I watered it, adjusted the soil around it, and occasionally whispered a small prayer over it. But weeks passed, and nothing seemed to happen. No new leaves. No visible growth. It looked exactly the same.
Eventually, I stopped checking it daily. Life became busy, and the tree faded into the background of my attention.
Then one morning months later, I stepped outside and stopped in my tracks. The tree had grown several inches. New branches had formed, and vibrant leaves were reaching toward the sky.
The growth had been happening the entire time. I just couldn’t see it.
Many believers experience the same thing in their spiritual lives and in the pursuit of their purpose. You pray. You plan. You take small steps of obedience. Yet it feels like nothing is changing.
But heaven sees what you cannot.
Growth often happens underground before it becomes visible above ground.
Scripture Meditation
Isaiah 40:31 (NKJV)
"But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint."
Waiting on God is often misunderstood.
Many people think waiting means inactivity, stagnation, or delay. But in Scripture, waiting on the Lord is an active spiritual posture. It is a position of trust, preparation, and strengthening.
While we wait, God works.
He strengthens our character.
He deepens our faith.
He matures our perspective.
And perhaps most importantly, He builds something many believers overlook:
Confidence rooted in Him rather than in outcomes.
The Hidden Work of God
One of the reasons people struggle with confidence is because they expect confidence to arrive suddenly.
But confidence rarely appears overnight.
Instead, God develops it through process.
Think about David before he faced Goliath. Many people focus on the moment he stood in the valley, but they overlook the years he spent alone tending sheep.
Those quiet fields were David’s training ground.
He fought lions and bears.
He learned to trust God in isolation.
He developed courage long before the public battle appeared.
What looked like an insignificant season was actually preparation for a defining moment.
The same pattern appears throughout Scripture:
Joseph spent years in prison before leading Egypt.
Moses spent forty years in the wilderness before confronting Pharaoh.
Jesus spent thirty years in preparation before beginning His public ministry.
God often uses waiting seasons to build the inner strength required for future assignments.
Why Waiting Challenges Confidence
Waiting exposes some of the deepest fears believers carry:
What if nothing changes?
What if I missed God?
What if someone else is more qualified?
These questions often lead to what I call Intermittent Focus™ — the cycle of starting, stopping, doubting, and restarting again.
Many believers begin moving toward their calling but lose momentum when progress feels slow.
But confidence is not built through immediate success.
It is built through consistent obedience.
Every step you take while trusting God strengthens the foundation of your faith.
The Spiritual Purpose of Delayed Results
God is never late.
But He is very intentional.
Delayed results often serve three divine purposes:
1. Alignment
Sometimes our timing is not heaven’s timing. Waiting allows God to align people, resources, and opportunities.
2. Character Development
Purpose requires emotional and spiritual maturity. Confidence built too quickly can become pride.
3. Spiritual Endurance
Waiting stretches our faith muscles so that we can sustain the responsibility of what God is preparing.
Without endurance, blessings can become burdens.
Propelling Point
Confidence is often formed in quiet seasons long before it is revealed in public victories.
If you are waiting for something to break open in your life, remember this:
God is not ignoring you.
He is preparing you.
And the strength He is building inside you will become the foundation for the assignment ahead.
Propel Activation
Take a few moments to reflect on these questions:
1. What area of your life currently feels like a waiting season?
2. What might God be developing in you during this time?
3. What small step of obedience can you take today even if results are not visible yet?
Then write this declaration somewhere you can see it:
“Even when I cannot see progress, God is developing confidence within me.”
Keep moving forward with faith.
Growth may be happening beneath the surface.






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