Common Barriers to Self-Trust — Breaking Free from Fear and Overthinking
- Dr. Sharon Kelley
- Aug 12
- 2 min read

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Have you ever caught yourself doubting your own choices or stuck in a cycle of overthinking? These are some of the most significant barriers to trusting yourself—and they affect even the strongest believers.
Fear is a master thief—it steals our peace, joy, and ability to move forward. When fear sneaks in, it plants seeds of doubt that grow into paralysis. Overthinking is another culprit, flooding the mind with “what-ifs” and “should-haves,” drowning out the still small voice inside.
Past mistakes can also shake our self-trust. We remember failures, rejections, or times we felt inadequate and let those memories convince us we can’t be trusted. But here’s the truth: God specializes in redeeming our failures. Romans 8:28 (NIV) says, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him...” That includes working in and through our mistakes to build wisdom and resilience.
The lie is that your past or your fears define your ability to trust yourself. The truth is God is calling you to rise above those barriers, reclaim your confidence, and step boldly into your purpose.
Propelling Point:
Identifying your barriers is the first step to breaking them. When you recognize fear and overthinking for what they are, you can begin to dismantle their power.
Propel Activation:
Write down one fear or limiting thought that keeps you from trusting yourself. Pray over it, declaring God’s truth and freedom in that area.
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